即使是多年以後仍覺得韻味頗深，李安真是深諳內斂情愫與人情道義的大家。東西文化小心翼翼的碰撞發聲，父輩傳統與年輕自我悄無聲息的水乳和解，每一個飯桌都是一場好戲，工整細致的劇本將所有矛盾融合入喜宴的高潮。每個人物都不是扁平的，每個鏡頭都沒有浪費。總要有一次舉手投降，換得劇終皆大歡喜。

《w兩個世界》《信號》的影子略重，但是故事基本ok，如果給這個片打68分。50分都可以給雷佳音的演技。如果把雷佳音換掉，這個故事基本上就垮掉了。

種族的東西不是很感冒，不過總體給人感覺 靜謐精致

挺有有意思的，朋友推薦的說很喜歡，確實不錯

「Not every relationship is meant for marriage.」「My teacher, Katherine Watson, lived by her own definition, and would not compromise that. Not even for Wellesley. I dedicate this, my last editorial, to an extraordinary woman who lived by example and compelled us all to see the world through new eyes. By the time you read this, she'll be sailing to Europe, where I know she'll find new walls to break down and new ideas to replace them with. I've heard her called a quitter for leaving, an aimless wanderer. But not all who wander are aimless. Especially not those who seek truth beyond tradition; beyond definition; beyond the image. We'll never forget you.」